Vancouver Marriage and Couples Counselling

TURN CONFLICTS INTO UNDERSTANDING.

HAVE YOU ....

You may feel that your relationship is just too hard and causes more pain than it is worth. You may be asking yourself how did we become so far apart? and doubt that you will ever have a close connection again. All relationships experience difficulties and challenges. You may be feeling stuck in a cycle that has developed as you try to deal with these challenges. Instead of feelling that you are progressing and learning from each other you end up feeling distant, angry, resentful, hurt, misunderstood, and alone in your relationship.

RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING CAN HELP. 

  For years I experienced overwhelming fears that prevented me from making any kind of commitment to my girlfriend. I felt absolutely stuck, continuously getting closer and further apart, closer and further apart .... and I felt frustrated ... so I decided to get the help of a counsellor.Delyse helped me through individual counselling and helped me and my partner in counselling sessions as a couple. With Delyse's help, I was able to make great progress in discovering and experiencing the root cause of my fears and to eventually dissolve my fears to the point where I was able to make a commitment I actually wanted. MY girlfriend also discovered fears of her own and was then able to address them!We are also new parents to a brand new baby boy! I highly recommend Delyse as a counsellor who has the experience, insight and approach to help with the problems of an individual or couple.' Keith Vancouver BC

When you feel hurt by your partner it is easy to want to hide aspects of yourself and shut down - You end up feeling split between what you express and what you feel on the inside. You may feel that you have to defend yourself against any criticism and conflict becomes a minefield. It is easy to end up reacting with blame, and when you experience differences between you and your partner it feels like the relationship will fall apart.

YOUR RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T HAVE TO BE A STRUGGLE.

It may sound hard to believe, but no matter how disillusioned you feel about your relationship, there is HOPE Counselling has helped countless couples to overcome these difficulties and find a renewed connection.

Counselling helped me achieve a new viewpoint and understanding about my life - to cut myself some slack and realize that much of the pressure I find myself under is exerted by me! Delyse was able to help me find the ways I had hidden to my own Pandora's box and it wasn't frightening at all - a little sad sometimes, but not scary.Delyse helped me recognise things that had influenced my life were 'influences' only but that I still remained in charge of the final decisions. I have exmarriageperienced renewed enthusiasm about what I can accomplish within relationships that I already enjoy! ' Ruby.

With 25 years Experience I have Developed an Approach that can Help You have a Satisfying Relationship 

WHAT I OFFER;

1) I have worked with hundreds of couples and spent the past 15 years studying the dynamics of relationships. Helping people develop satisfying relationships is my passion. My marriage and couples counselling training includes Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Developmental Approach to couples by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson.

2) My approach involves:

3) I have a vast experience with many different types of relationships such as; Same Sex couples those in alternative lifestyles such as polyamory and open relationships, relationships that are dealing with infidelity, grief, mental illness, and non-traditional sex roles.

4) I have been married for a number of years, so know first hand the challenges of relationships and what is involved in creating a successful healthy relationship.

TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP A PRIORITY TAKES TIME AND INVESTMENT

Perhaps you have been unhappy for years and keep saying to yourself that you have no reason to feel the way that you do. You may desperately hope that things will just get better if you give it enough time, or that it is all in the past so why should it still bother me?

Reaching out can be the biggest hurdle, especially if you have learnt to deal with things by yourself. Looking for the right marriage counsellor can seem daunting. You might feel that going to see a counsellor is a weakness and feel embarrassed. Or you might feel you have let yourself down because you could not do it by yourself. But it is actually the opposite!

When you make that call to improve your relationship you are taking charge! You are saying I want and deserve to be happy in my relationship.

DISCOVER HOW TO HAVE A POSITIVE AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP NOW! 

First; sign up for my free newsletter 'Transforming Relationships' and receive regular articles that will help you to improve your relationship. You will also receive my free report '10 ways to enhance your relationship' when you sign up. Second; Call 604 329 6006 to discuss how couples counselling can help you and your partner.

I offer a free 15 minute phone consultation. Office location 608 - 402 W. Pender. Downtown Vancouver BC.